
Wednesday, 18 June 2025
(OBE, MA (Hons), PhD (Otago), DipTchg, FNZPsS): 22.08.40 â 12.06.25.  Founding director of the Founding director of the Dunedin Multidisciplinary Health and Development Study. Much loved husband of Suzanne, and the late Wendy. Former husband of Anne. Father and father-in-law of Nikki, Patrick, Jeremy and Deb, Penny and Dan, Michael, Tim, Rachel, the late Anthony, and the late Nathan. Grandfather of Hugh, Tom, Lucy, Emma, Abby, Prue, Katy, Tom, Harry, Annabelle, Ralph, and Hugo, and great grandfather of Arlo, Benny, Minnie, and Finn. Brother of the late Michael, Geoff and Caro, Jenny, Lyndall, the late Robyn, Hilary, and Nicky. Stepfather of Dougal and Joanna, Antonia, Fleur and Rod, and step grandfather of Oscar, Ben, Olivia, Kai, Farai, and Hanako.
The family wish to thank the Arvida St Albans staff for their outstanding care of Dr Phil. Â Messages may be addressed to: The family of the late Dr Phil Silva, c/- PO Box 39001, Christchurch 8545. A service to celebrate Philâs life will be held in our Oaklands Chapel, corner of Halswell Junction and Wigram Roads, Halswell, Christchurch, on Wednesday, June 18, at 2.30pm.
Phil taught me in Standard 4 at Grants Braes school in Dunedin in 1962. It was the first time I'd had a teacher who communicated warmth and encouragement, rather than the distant disciplinarian-type teachers that I'd had up till then. He painted a map of New Zealand on a hardboard frame and if you linked a river/mountain with the correct name in the key a small light bulb lit up on the feature. When I finished the year he talked to me about what I could do with my life. Inspiring.Don Brash
Sincere condolences to the Silva Family at the passing of Dr Phil. Many are the memories I have of Phil's support and encouragement during the 1990 and early 2000s. He took considerable interest in the programmes delivered by the Police Youth Education Service. His particular interest in the six New Zealand developed D.A.R.E. (Dare to resist drugs and violence) programmes and resources delivered in schools and wider communities. His willingness to Chair The DARE Foundation of NZ, certainly assisted in raising the mana of the organisation. I had the privilege of presenting with Phil at international conferences, here in NZ and Brazil. RIP Phil, you and the legacy you have left us will never be forgotten. Graham Gibbs (Retired - NZ Police & CEO DARE NZ).Graham Gibbs
Dearest Nicki, Jeremy, Penny and Tim and families, Please accept my sincerest condolences following the recent death of your Dad. I just watched the funeral and was so deeply moved and upset. Iâm so glad you all have such fond memories you will treasure forever in your hearts. He truly was an adventurous free spirit with a kind heart helping so many. He and Dad will have lots to catch up on. You are all in my prayers, Please keep in touch. God Bless and Vale Uncle Phil Love Francesca 🙏Francesca Noon Ne Silva
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