
Tuesday, 14 July 2026
On July 8, 2026, passed away peacefully with family by her side, at Lady Wigram Retirement Village, aged 88 years. Dearly loved wife of the late Jim, much loved mother and mother-in-law of John and Karen, Stephen (deceased), Sarah Sunckell-Brown (Brisbane), Â Lucy and Stephen Read, (Brisbane) and Anna and Geoff Heslop, and adored Granny of Joseph, and Sian; Alexander, and Chelsea; Thomas, and Frances.
“A life well lived”
Special thanks to the staff at Lady Wigram for the wonderful care and support given to Bettye and family. Messages may be addressed to: The family of the late Bettye Sunckell, c/- PO Box 39001, Christchurch 8545.
A service to celebrate Bettye’s life will be held at Oaklands, corner Halswell Junction and Wigram Roads, Halswell, on Tuesday July 14, at 10.00am, private cremation thereafter.
Most of my fondest memories of Granny are of her in Akaroa running Windemere House with Grandpa. Granny kept several warm and inviting rooms for the many travellers that came through to see the beautiful bay surrounded by its great rolling hills. Every day I stayed there in the bunk room upstairs, I would wake to the unmistakably delicious scent of her baking fresh bread in the kitchen below. Granny did not just provide "breakfast" but in her own way a whole experience personal to her and our family. Toast, cereals, fresh homemade yogurt and most impressively a veritable buffet of preserved fruits and jams.. all made by clever Granny, served with sparkling trays and silverware.. not to mention adorable hand paddled, scored round little butter balls. After a breakfast like this where Granny (and Grandpa if he wasnt too engrossed in the newspapers sudoku) would share in the history of Windemere equally listening to the many tales and experiences of the guests. We would clean up after breakfast, and Granny would never forget to take the breadcrumbs out the back patio to feed the birds.. "Oh I can't stand waste" - something that has stuck with me to this day. Granny had a great love and remarkable patience for all people, animals and plants. We would often then wander through Akaroaâs many little shops, sometimes picking up a treat, sometimes down to the pier for fresh fish for dinner.. sometimes up and down the beach looking for cats-eyes.. most times wandering just to wander. We would wander and wonder at anything big or small, grand or humble we came across, she found interest and joy in everything around her, no matter how seemingly insignificant. Granny's uncanny ability to recognised flora wherever we went like a naturalist, regale history like university historian and cook like walking cookbook will always be one of my greatest awes. I watched a gloriously kind and patient woman move through her life offering her warmth to everyone, Granny didn't rouse, she didnt yell.. if anything she might have lightly scolded you and if she did.. you likely deserved it. I wish to be as kind, patient as Granny, find the joy in each day just as she did.. and to love with a love as warm and all encompassing as hers. A mother, a grandmother, a teacher, a pilot, a gardener, a grocer and a dairy farmer. Many incredible things was Elizabeth RIma Sunckell.. but best of all.. she was my Granny. You will always be OUR Granny.C. Rima Rose Brown
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