
Wednesday, 14 October 2026
17 January 1952 â 9 October 2026
After a courageous and hard-fought battle, Ray is now at rest.
Forever and always a deeply loved and cherished husband of his devoted wife, Mary. ![]()
A favourite son of the late Albert and Phyllis. A much-loved Dad (and advisor) to his children, Debbie and Gareth, Terry and Younch, Mereana and Grant, and Michael and Anne. A special and never-to-be-forgotten Grandad to Juliana and Alexander, Harvey, Brooke and Braxton, and Oliver and George. A brother, uncle, and mate to many. A heartfelt thank you to everyone who has been a tower of strength throughout this journey. Your love, kindness and support have meant the world to us. A special thanks to Dr Chloe Dearlove and Raewyn and Keith from Motor Neurone Disease New Zealand (MND NZ). You are all such special people, and your support has been truly amazing. We will be forever grateful for the care and compassion you have shown Ray and our family. In Rayâs memory, we are grateful for any support given to MND NZ  and the amazing work they do for people and families affected, donations can be made online at mnd.org.nz.  Messages may be addressed to: The family of the late Ray Sefton, c/- PO Box 39001, Christchurch 8545. A service to celebrate Rayâs life will be held at Westpark, 467 Wairakei Road, Burnside, on Wednesday, October 14, at 2.00pm.

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